If you’re sick and tired of having interactions with women that goes nowhere then pay close attention to what I’m about to reveal to you…

I’m going to introduce to you the 50/50 rule. This rule is all about balance. Therefore, it is designed to help you balance out the things that will really make a difference to your results. Here are a few things you should balance out when trying to pick up women:

Interest & Disinterest

Some guys are either showing too much interest or are not showing any interest at all when interacting with women.

If you show too much interest in a woman she may quickly lose interest because you won’t be a challenge to her.

If you don’t show any interest in her at all, she may see you as just a friend.

However, if you balance out both interest and disinterest (50/50), women will see you as an intriguing, interesting and challenging person.

Logical & Illogical

If you’re too logical and always having logical conversations with women, you’ll bore the crap out of them. When the conversation gets boring, women tend to lose interest in you and make an excuse to leave.

That’s because logical conversations spark no emotions at all.

On the other hand, if you’re too illogical (always being cocky and joking with women), they may see you as a complete weirdo and won’t take you seriously.

But if you have a mixture of both, she’ll see you as an interesting and fun guy to interact with.

Agreement & Disagreement

Always agree with women and they may think you’re only doing it to get in their pants. They’ll also see you as someone who is no fun and no challenge. Worst of all, women will mostly likely put you in the friend zone.

Always disagree with women and they will see you as a jerk or someone who they’ll never get along with.

However, if you agree with her about 50% of the time and disagree with her the other 50% of the time, she will see you as a more genuine and interesting person.

Similarity & Dissimilarity

I’ve met women who have no similarity with me and my interactions with them went nowhere.

I’ve also met women who seemed to be similar to me in every way. This also went nowhere. Funny enough, having too many similarities can either creep women out or make them feel like you’re their brother.

However, demonstrating that you’re similar to her in some areas and dissimilar in other areas actually builds more connection with women.

Conversation Ratio

If you’re talking about 90% of the time throughout the entire interaction with a woman, chances are good, you won’t get with her.

The reason for this is because women become attracted to the things they’ve invest their time, money, or energy on. Therefore, if she does not get involve or invest in the interaction with you, she won’t be attracted to you.

On the other hand, the more she invests in the interaction, the more likely she’ll become attracted to you. So don’t try to do all the talking, get her to do the talking as well.

Analyzing & Improving Your Success With Women

Every time when I have interactions with women that went nowhere, it’s usually because I failed to follow the 50/50 rule.

For example, most of the time when my interactions went nowhere, it’s usually because I’ve showed too much interest in a woman or because I was being too cocky and funny (I have a bad habit of overdoing those two).

Knowing what I did wrong, I would then go out next time and try to balance it out by only showing interest in a woman about 50% of the time while showing disinterest the other 50% of the time.

I would also try to be illogical (cocky and funny) about 50% of the time while being logical (normal; serious) the other 50% of the time.

Whenever I learn from my mistakes and learn to balance it out, I usually have more successful interactions with women the next time out.

So if you’ve had interactions that went nowhere, try to analyze it by using the 50/50 rule. Just ask yourself…

  • Was I being too logical or was I being too illogical?
  • Was I showing too much interest or was I showing too much disinterest?
  • Was I agreeing too much or was I disagreeing?
  • Was I talking too much or was I not talking enough?

  • Was I demonstrating too much similarity or was I demonstrating too much dissimilarity?

Chances are good that one or more of these things was out of balance.

Tobi Yang

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P.P.S. If you have any questions or comments about the 50/50 rule, feel free to share it below and I’ll be happy to reply.