You probably heard dating gurus say this all the time: “what you say doesn’t matter, it’s how you say it.”

Well, I say… bull crap! I dare any one of those gurus to take this line and make it work:

“Hey, you look like a total slut… come here and give me a blow job and if I enjoy it maybe I’ll take you home and fuck you like the slut you are. Then I’ll pass you onto my friends so they can fuck you too.”

I don’t care “how” well you say the line above; it is not going to work (if it does work, it’ll be one in a million).

Every single word that comes out of your mouth matters! “How” you say it… matters! “What” you say… matters! They BOTH matter!!!

And of course, there are no magic lines that will work 100% of the time on every single girl. Buuuuuut… there are certain lines that WILL WORK MAJORITY of the time.

I’ve discovered lines that gets women talking to me 80 to 95% of the time. I’ve also discovered lines that gets women laughing 70 to 80% of the time.

So There’s No Need To Reinvent The Wheel

Just take what works and continue to use it because there really is no need to reinvent the wheel. If you have just one shot to get a girl, are you going to use a line that has been proven to work? Or are you going to reinvent the wheel and use a line that you have no clue whether it’ll work or not?

I don’t know about you but I rather use a routine or pickup line that has been proven to work.

If You Fail To Plan, You Plan To Fail

If we were to go into war without a plan to win, then we obviously were planning to lose. We can’t just go into a war without a plan and expect to win it naturally (LOL). We’ll need a battle plan (in our case, we’ll need a game plan).

I used to approach women without a game plan, telling myself “I’m just going to be myself and hope that things will turn out the way I wanted”. Hoping women will magically end up in bed with me towards the end of the night.

Guess what?

That never happened. I never got laid on a consistent basis until the day I finally came up with my own game plan.

So now, whenever I go out to pick up women… I always have a game plan… a plan to initiate interactions with women, a plan to spark attraction, a plan to build connection, a plan to sexually arouse her and a plan to deal with any objections women throws at me.

If my game plan doesn’t work, I’ll reevaluate it and try to improve it. If it works, I’ll still try to improve and try to make it work consistently.

I’ve never really had any results with women until the day I started implementing a game plan. So if you don’t have a game plan then you should consider coming up with one. But then again, there’s no need to reinvent the wheel, just take a game plan that’s already working and implement it.

You can grab a copy of my game plan by clicking here.

Make it happen!

Tobi Yang